I’m anxious about the Husker season, and not because of the hail Mary loss last week to BYU. I’m nervous for potlucks that will bring THE question, “So, how’s the new job?”
(I recently quit my cool college teaching job to take a cool youth ministry job. . . which didn’t work out. . . and I got a cool opportunity to teach eighth grade English. . . an hour away from home. The end. Er. . . the beginning. So my real answer to this question is a bit of a game day casserole.)
It’s good. (Smile.)
In his book, The Road to Character, David Brooks notes that character is built through drama and the everyday. But don’t I have enough character? Can’t we be done with this stretching? My elastic is sorta starting to crunch.
Angsty teenage responses aside, Brooks does help me process. Instead of the typical, “What do I want from life?” he directs us to ask a different set of questions:
What does life want from me? What are my circumstances calling me to do? In this scheme of things we don’t create our lives; we are summoned by life. The important answers are not found inside. They are found outside. . . Your job is to figure certain things out: What does this environment need in order to be made whole. What is it that needs repair? What tasks are lying around waiting to be performed? Or, as novelist Frederick Buechner puts it, “At what points do my talents and deep gladness meet the world’s deep need?”
In all this change I am reminded that the Christian walk is more descent than ascent. My bubble is intact, albeit a little deflated, but God’s power is made perfect in weakness.
And yesterday I was feeling pretty weak.
Today is better.
Gratitude grounds us when the familiar gets shaky and new:
- I’m thankful for work that challenges me.
- I’m thankful that my littles (C & O) are so well cared for by Grandma.
- I’m thankful for my students, the quiet ones and the crazy ones and the ones who fart loudly in the middle of reading Poe’s Tell Tale Heart.
- I’m thankful Brene Brown audiobooks that speed the commute.
- I’m thankful for the grace to write about the twists in the past few months.
- I’m thankful for my prayerful, supportive family.
- I’m thankful even for the tears that are washing something away, making space for something new.
“You do not need to know precisely what is happening, or exactly where it is all going. What you need is to recognize the possibilities and challenges offered by the present moment, and to embrace them with courage, faith and hope.” – Thomas Merton